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Off Duty | The Guardian Investigates

Can I tell you a secret? Episode five: a mother’s love

Off Duty | The Guardian Investigates

The Guardian

Documentary, Society & Culture

4.81.6K Ratings

🗓️ 23 September 2022

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

Journalist Sirin Kale meets Matthew’s mother to uncover more about his past, and find out what might have motivated him to cyberstalk his victims for so many years

Transcript

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0:00.0

This is The Guardian.

0:06.4

Just before we begin, this is a podcast series about stalking and some people might find parts of it difficult to listen to.

0:17.6

In the last episode, Matthew's victims told me about the day they finally faced him in court.

0:25.6

And the moment he was handed a nine-year jail sentence, a sentence he plans to appeal.

0:32.6

But there's still someone we haven't heard from.

0:49.3

A house, surrounded by electric gates and security cameras. Inside, Don is waiting for us, nervous, but friendly.

0:59.0

I was... I went to spoke to Matthew yesterday.

1:04.0

I said that you were coming and normally you phone to me just after six-plot.

1:09.0

So we might get interrupted. Okay.

1:11.6

The first thing Matthew's mum does is make us a cup of tea.

1:14.6

There's a small, yappy dog racing around the kitchen, gnawing on a chew toy.

1:21.6

I hope that you haven't been anxious about meeting us. I know it's quite stressful.

1:26.6

Yeah. Because we're not bad people. Yeah. I have been anxious because we're not bad people.

1:29.3

Yeah.

1:30.3

We're really not.

1:31.3

We've been through so much.

1:34.3

Life's unhulled.

1:36.3

Press the pause button and that's it.

1:40.3

It's just, yeah, it's just yeah it's just

1:45.3

living in just a nightmare

1:47.3

from the Guardian

1:50.2

I'm showing Kala

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