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Find Your Food Voice

Can I raise an intuitive eater if I've never been one? {Ep 80 with Leslie Schilling}

Find Your Food Voice

Julie Duffy Dillon RDN

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Nutrition

4.9 • 750 Ratings

🗓️ 24 July 2017

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary


Are you worried about your ability to raise a normal eater, when maybe you've never been one yourself? Do you worry about raising children in larger bodies because you fear they will live a life filled with eating issues and judgment? Listen now for some suggestions for navigating this difficult part of the food peace journey.

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This episode is brought to you by my PCOS summer series: Empowering Your PCOS Journey. You CAN make peace with food even with PCOS and I want to show you how. This series and our Facebook group will be with you every step of the way.

Episode's Key Points:

  • Being in a larger body in this world is HARD. From clothing choices to fitting in chairs, fat bodies face oppression EVERY day.
  • It IS possible to prepare children for this fatphobic world by telling them that you love them at ANY size.
  • Leslie Schilling joins to talk solutions!
  • Our culture is one of diet culture, and so it's not uncommon to have these fears when thinking about having children.
  • Understanding our own development around food is a HUGE step in learning how to raise children with a healthy relationship with food.
  • Sometimes we have to recognize that the way we were raised was super disordered!
  • Use your nutrition intuition.
  • Be ASSERTIVE about the way you raise your children.
  • Remember that you are your child's protector! It's a parent's responsibility to teach body peace, rather than body hate, and to stand up against other adults who perpetuate body shame.
  • Honesty builds bridges.
  • It's not our job to change other people's minds, but it IS our job to be assertive about our own safe spaces.
  • Values upheld by the family help a child to be self-protective.
  • Make sure your kid knows that THEY are in charge of their own body.
  • Kids have to be able to FAIL. As long as they have a safe home to come back to, we can't protect them from all of diet culture all of the time
  • Baby-led weaning: use family food to wean kids off of the bottle.
  • We are born as experts of our own body!

Show Notes:

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0:00.0

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0:39.9

Say goodbye to the food police and hello to peace. Welcome to the love food podcast, hosted by

0:46.9

dietitian and food behavior expert Julie Duffy Dillon. This authentically engineered series is in

0:53.4

the form of a love letter, welcoming you to

0:56.3

reconnect with food. Now pour a cup of coffee or a margarita, and let's begin.

1:10.8

Hi and welcome to episode 80 of the Love Food podcast. I am Julie Duffy Dillon, registered

1:18.4

dietitian, and partner on your food peace journey. I'm so glad you're here. Thank you for connecting

1:25.0

today, and I have a letter that I know you are going to appreciate.

1:30.1

I got a letter today that I really look forward to just getting all out on the table.

1:36.2

There are so many important things to discuss. This person has had an experience where her very

1:43.1

well-meaning parents raised her to not trust her body,

1:47.7

to not trust food, and she's gone through lots and lots of bumpy roads with food and

1:55.7

recovering from her eating disorder. And now she's in this place of reconnecting and rediscovering intuitive eating.

2:04.5

If you haven't found intuitive eating, it's a book by Evelyn Tribbley and Elise Resch,

2:10.4

who are two dietitians, and they wrote this book back in the mid-90s, and it's all about

2:15.6

using your own body and hunger and fullness cues to direct

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