I never approach women. Will I get a total 10 without approaching or not? Well, the reality is that if

you have to talk to other people and it doesn't necessarily have to be an approach, if you will,

because really you should lose yourself in the process of enjoying your life.

And you have your mission, your purpose, what you do professionally, to earn a living, to build your

little empire in your spot of the world, wherever that happens to be.

And then you're going to have your social life, what you like to do for fun.

And meeting a great girl with similar goals, similar values, who's like-minded is a side

effect of having a great life.

And it's like the women I wrote about in my book, it was just like they all, those kind

of great love stories where you meet somebody and you feel like

you just known them instantly, you have similar goals, similar values, shared experiences.

It's people that like the same things tend to like each other. And so if you love boating,

you join a yacht club. If you're in the golf, joining a country club. Like like me i love to shoot and train a pistol and rifle

and i found over the years that a lot of the dudes that are in the gun community down here in south

florida are high character people family oriented loyal good kind dangerous but kind people.

And that's just, you know, like I said,

like minded people, like the same things.

And in the process of creating your social life,

like living in a city that offers you

the kind of social life and social activities,

maybe you're in the bar scene

or like where I've always lived in the

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