I just focus on that words.

Hmm.

How do you live as a minimalist with a hoarder?

My boyfriend is the worst accumulator of crap I've ever seen.

There's something much deeper going on than hoarding here.

Our house is littered with the remains of all the hobbies you tried to start.

Every time Amazon, every time Amazon comes, I groan.

All right, well, let's talk about this.

So there could be a compatibility issue here.

In relationships, there are sort of three things that are the glue of any relationship.

There is chemistry.

That's how relationships often start.

Right?

You can even think of these as sort of like the head, the heart, and the genitalia.

So I look at everything.

And with the chemistry, obviously, it's like, I'm attracted to you.

Yes.

Now, that can be a sexual attraction, but it can also just be there are certain people who are magnetic.

And so it doesn't have to be a sexual attraction.

But there's a chemistry between the dynamic of two different people.

Right?

Yes.

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