Michael writes in to ask of this, Pastor John is a possible for a husband to lust after

his own wife.

So is that a sin even possible within the marriage relationship?

Well, I wish I had Michael here just asking more precisely what he has in mind by lusting

after his wife.

So let me go at it from a Bible text and then circle around maybe and guess at what

Michael might have in his mind and do the best to answer his question.

Here's a relevant text and it may be a little confusing because the translations differ

here and I'm going to opt for a more unusual one.

I'm thinking of first Thessalonians 4, 3 through 5.

Here's my translation.

I'll give both ESV and mine or NIV, they're all saying pretty much.

For this is the will of God, your sanctification that you abstain from sexual immorality, that

each one of you, now here comes the controversial part.

That each one of you know how to ESV control his own body in holiness and honor.

Now the issue is the word behind body is vessel, that's the literal translation, vessel.

So it's either possess, obtain or control his own vessel.

So there are two possibilities, one, he's talking about his wife, his own vessel and that's

the one I'm opting for because in first Peter 3, 7 it says, live together with your wife

and honor her as the weaker vessel, that's the word that's used here or it could be your

own self, your own sexual organ, the vessel.

So which is it?

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