Calming Up: Beyond the Hype
Hacking Your ADHD
William Curb
4.7 • 779 Ratings
🗓️ 20 February 2026
⏱️ 17 minutes
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Summary
Hey Team!
In physics, there's a concept called "static friction"—it's the friction that exists between a stationary object and the surface on which it's resting. It's actually harder to get something moving than it is to keep it moving once it's already in motion. I think about this a lot when I'm staring at a pile of mail or a sink full of dishes. We often feel like we need a massive internal explosion to overcome that static friction, like we have to "hulk smash" our way into productivity just to get off the couch.
But that explosion often carries us too far, landing us right in the middle of a panic attack or total overwhelm. We're essentially trying to jump from zero to sixty in a car that isn't even idling yet. Today we're looking at a different approach: how we can gently increase our internal RPMs without redlining the engine. We're exploring the biology of our nervous system and how we can use "bottom-up" signals to tell our brains that it's time to move, without relying on the usual fuel of shame or last-minute panic.
If you'd life to follow along on the show notes page you can find that at HackingYourADHD.com/274
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This Episode's Top Tips
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- Stop trying to "think" your way out of a shutdown or a panic. When your Prefrontal Cortex is offline, your brain isn't listening to logic; it's listening to your body. Use physical signals—like temperature or movement—to tell your brain you are safe or ready to move.
- Understand that some stress is biologically necessary for ADHD focus. Instead of trying to be perfectly relaxed before a big task, aim for "optimal stimulation"—enough arousal to feel sharp, but not so much that you're jittery.
- When you're stuck in a low-energy state, don't look for a massive "hype" session that might lead to overwhelm. Instead, "calm up" by using the smallest possible increments of arousal—like a single song or light stretching—to reach a "zen" state of doing.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Hacking Your ADHD. |
| 0:06.6 | I'm your host, William Herb, and I have ADHD. |
| 0:10.2 | On this podcast, I dig in tools, tactics, and best practices to help you work with your ADHD brain. |
| 0:16.9 | Hey, team, in physics, there's a concept called static friction. |
| 0:22.6 | It's the friction that exists between a stationary object and the surface on which it's resting. It's actually harder to get |
| 0:27.9 | something moving than it is to keep it moving once it's already in motion. And this is something |
| 0:33.6 | I think about when I'm staring at a pile of mail or a sink full of dishes, |
| 0:37.9 | those tasks that just built. |
| 0:40.0 | We often feel like we need a massive internal explosion of energy to overcome that static |
| 0:45.8 | friction, like we have to Hulk smash our way into productivity just to get off the couch. |
| 0:52.3 | But that explosion often carries us too far, landing us right in the |
| 0:56.5 | middle of a panic attack or total overwhelm. We're essentially trying to jump from zero to 60 in a car |
| 1:02.1 | that isn't even idling yet. Today we're looking at a different approach. How we can gently |
| 1:08.6 | increase our internal RPMs without redlining the engine. |
| 1:13.3 | We're exploring the biology of our nervous system and how we can use bottom-up signals |
| 1:18.5 | to tell our brain that it's time to move without relying on the usual fuel of shame or last-minute |
| 1:25.2 | pet. |
| 1:26.1 | If you'd like to follow along on the show notes page, you can find that at hacking your |
| 1:30.1 | ADHD.com slash 274. |
| 1:33.3 | All right, keep on listening to find out how to finally win that fight against your own |
| 1:38.2 | sofa. |
| 1:40.7 | Polyvagal theory, developed by Dr. Stephen Porges, views our nervous system kind of like a ladder, |
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