Caller 📞 Sessions! "How Do I Regain The Power In My Open Relationship?" - Ep 383

Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Tv & Film, Society & Culture, Relationships, After Shows

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🗓️ 24 April 2025

⏱️ 52 minutes

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It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by Sarah who is in a long term, long distance, *polyamorous* relationship. While she has agreed to all the terms, she doesn't feel prioritized or valued. Is this her anxious attachment style rearing its head or is it the relationship itself? And can she regain the power in this dynamic? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for 40% off your first order! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sarah! 40:30 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Can I say something that's going to sound totally ridiculous? But the way this feels to me is that
0:06.0	he's cheating on you. Dear Shandy. Welcome back to Dear Shandy listeners. Hello, Andy.
0:15.9	Hello. How are you today? Great. Great. Yeah, Caller Day. It It is caller day. And we are joined today by a lovely
0:22.7	caller named Sarah. Sarah, thank you so much for joining us. Hello, Sarah. Hello. Thank you for
0:27.7	having me. Do you mind giving us your age, the ages of the people in question, your location,
0:33.9	whatever you're comfortable sharing, and your story, please. Yeah, I'm 32.
0:41.8	My partner is also 32, and we both are on the West Coast.
0:43.6	We both, we're long distance.
0:45.7	We're about three hours apart from each other.
0:48.7	And we are... We're just sorry to interrupt, but which town is he or she in?
0:53.8	Yeah, he's in Seattle.
0:55.7	Yeah.
0:56.2	Oh, we like Seattle.
0:57.3	We do like Seattle.
0:58.2	We approve.
0:59.2	It's very pretty there.
1:00.3	And it makes visiting fun.
1:01.8	So that's not the issue.
1:04.2	The issue is mostly about we are in a polyamorous relationship.
1:08.9	And I know that's been something on your hot topics you've
1:12.7	been kind of going around. And I don't want that to be like the main focus of this necessarily
1:19.0	because it's like I want our relationship to be more whole. And you know, it's like, you know,
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