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Caitlin Bekker: The Heart of a Heart Mom

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Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.86.2K Ratings

🗓️ 26 March 2025

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

Prior to her son’s birth in 2020, Caitlin Bekker didn’t have experience with congenital heart disease. Five years later, being a “heart mom” has become a core part of her identity. On this week’s episode, Caitlin shares how watching her little boy go through multiple open heart surgeries has refined her and have taught her to trust in the Lord, live in gratitude in the present, and she hopes they will ultimately help her become the person and disciple of Jesus Christ she would like to be.

1:45- Receiving and Processing a Diagnosis
7:27- Health Literacy
10:26- Finding a Community
12:09- Living in the Present
14:27- Why?
19:14- Mom Guilt
22:40- Bringing Matthew Home
25:05- Comforting Those Who Stand In Need of Comfort
34:08- Hard Is Hard
38:08- Perspective
40:49- Update
43:00- Living in the Present Pt. 2
45:27- What Does It Mean To Be All In the Gospel of Jesus Christ?

“Life’s going to pass by no matter what so you might as well let the hard situations help you to become more of what you want to be.”

Episodes References: 

President Jeffrey R. Holland said, “With apologies to Elder Neal A. Maxwell for daring to modify and enlarge something he once said, I too suggest that “one’s life … cannot be both faith-filled and stress-free.” It simply will not work “to glide naively through life,” saying as we sip another glass of lemonade, “Lord, give me all thy choicest virtues, but be certain not to give me grief, nor sorrow, nor pain, nor opposition. Please do not let anyone dislike me or betray me, and above all, do not ever let me feel forsaken by Thee or those I love. In fact, Lord, be careful to keep me from all the experiences that made Thee divine. And then, when the rough sledding by everyone else is over, please let me come and dwell with Thee, where I can boast about how similar our strengths and our characters are as I float along on my cloud of comfortable Christianity.” https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2020/10/57holland?lang=eng

Morgan’s Interview with Kate Bowler- https://www.deseret.com/2018/5/18/20645268/q-a-duke-divinity-school-s-kate-bowler-explains-how-cancer-has-helped-her-appreciate-life-god-s-love/

Transcript

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0:00.0

In 2020, while the entire rest of the world was dealing with a pandemic that was full of uncertainty,

0:06.7

Caitlin Becker gave birth to a beautiful baby boy named Matthew. His birth, like the world at

0:12.8

large, was also full of uncertainty. Prior to his birth, Caitlin learned that her baby would be

0:18.9

born with hypoplastic left heart syndrome, a

0:22.2

congenital heart disease that would require multiple open heart surgeries, including one at just six

0:28.1

days old. What would life hold for this little boy? But what does life hold for any of us?

0:35.0

Caitlin Becker says she has learned that nothing in life is guaranteed and the

0:39.6

key is to embrace the scars and the story that mortality gives us. Caitlin Becker is the mother

0:46.5

of three beautiful children and has embraced her role as a heart mom. She and her husband William

0:53.0

are now raising their family in the Boston area.

1:00.0

This is All-LEN, an LDS Living podcast where we ask the question, what does it really mean to be All-Lend, the Gospel of Jesus Christ?

1:08.0

I'm Morgan Pearson, and I am so honored to have Caitlin Becker on the line

1:12.2

with me today. Caitlin, welcome. Thanks for having me, Morgan. Well, I invited Caitlin on because I have

1:22.0

been so impressed by the way that you have handled a situation that I think so many people, we just have no idea

1:28.8

what we would do in a situation like the one that you're in. And I feel like you and your husband

1:35.3

for being a young couple have handled it with so much grace. And so I'm so excited to learn from

1:43.8

you today. I wanted to start for listeners to kind of

1:48.1

lay the groundwork for our conversation. I wondered if you could tell me a little bit about

1:53.7

the background of your family and specifically the day that you found out about Matthew's condition.

2:03.8

All right. So my husband and I had just moved to Minnesota and decided to have baby number two.

2:11.0

And then after my 20-week anatomy ultrasound, I was told to go to a specialty clinic the next day for some better

2:20.9

images and to bring my husband. And I felt that it was probably pretty serious. So after

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