Once you can't love with your whole heart,

then you can open up your heart valve

and then say, yes, I can love you with my whole heart

and not be afraid to get hurt.

But because I'm afraid from my mother to hurt me, I don't want to open up my whole heart and so now every time I get

closer to a woman we like nope nope nope nope nope nope we're not doing that we're not

doing that and it all stems from the me saying my mother treated me this way.

Building wealth and when it comes to us breaking that,

breaking that stronghold of how you feel about the market,

you gotta endure it.

But so one of the biggest things about that

is how do we develop the tools.

So even as I go to therapy, Jose, right? So as I go to therapy, one of the things that me and my therapist talk about is we equip me with the tools so that I can reflect on moments.

So I'll give you an example.

I like to teach from personal perspective.

So one of the examples that we always use is my mother.

So that is a hurdle for me, right?

And the reason why we got to use my mother a lot is because I didn't realize that that was a

What's the word I'm used for when it comes to Matt that was the common denominator to a lot of the issues I was

having. Right? She was the common denominator to a lot of and she didn't do it intentionally.

And one of the things I had to learn how to do was,

and I had a phone call that actually like that really helped me break through with it

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