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A thriving marriage is made up of two selfless people who are

striving to serve each other but let's admit it we all struggle with

selfishness and it's just not easy. My first initial response to my dear

wife Dina is not always, oh of course this will serve you best. I like to guard my time and I don't like to be interrupted and sometimes I find myself

scheduling my day so I don't have to do something for her which is not really

going to lead to a thriving marriage now Now Greg and Aaron you two have been married

for 27 years now so Aaron obviously Greg has been selfless and sacrificing that

whole time. Absolutely. How about you? Yeah.

Oh.

Thank you, John.

Yes, thank you.

Well, let's talk.

Let's get the calendars.

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