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Mind Love™ • Consciousness, Spirituality, and Science for Awakening

Building Good Habits and Breaking Bad Ones with James Clear • 109

Mind Love™ • Consciousness, Spirituality, and Science for Awakening

Melissa Monte | Conscious Coach

Mental Health, Awakening, Personal Growth, Mindfulness, Religion & Spirituality, Spiritual Growth, Consciousness, Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Inspirational

4.9908 Ratings

🗓️ 17 December 2019

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

They say by the time you’re 35, you’re basically a series of habits… habits of thought, habits of behavior, habits of emotions…⠀

Habits are not just about behaviors. They include thoughts and emotions too.⠀

If it seems like you always have negative thoughts looping in your head and just can’t get on the positivity train, that’s because you haven’t checked your thought habits.⠀

Meaning you haven’t yet disrupted your current thought patterns and consciously created new ones.⠀

Emotional habits include snapping too easily road rage wallowing in self-pity, and even aspects of depression. ⠀

Understanding how to break bad habits and build positive ones are super important, not just for success, but for survival.⠀

I’m really excited because today we have the author of THE BEST book I’ve ever read on habits… and I’ve read a lot.⠀

This book has thousands of reviews on amazon and all five starts. Not 4 and half. FIVE. That’s rare y’all.⠀

Our guest today is James Clear. Author of the best-selling book Atomic Habits. He is also one of the world’s leading experts on habit formation.⠀

Today he’s going to teach us practical strategies that will teach you exactly how to form good habits, break bad ones, and master those tiny little behaviors that lead to remarkable results.⠀

We will learn:

  • What’s actually happening in the brain when a habit is formed.
  • Why self control seems so difficult
  • And simple steps you can take to start building the habits needed to become the best version of you.

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0:00.0

George is a new electric car.

0:03.6

You look happy George.

0:05.2

I am very happy.

0:06.8

George wasn't sure about going electric.

0:08.8

He was worried about running out of power on the motorway.

0:11.3

But now he has Admiral Car Insurance which can come with

0:14.5

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0:19.5

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0:24.2

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0:30.3

Welcome to Mind Love, episode 109.

0:33.0

Today's episode is all about how to build good habits and break bad ones.

0:37.0

Somewhere between 40 to 50 percent of our daily behaviors are non-conscious automatic habits.

0:43.4

Just to connect the dots here, so I mentioned earlier,

0:45.6

we got those four stages, cue, craving response reward.

0:49.0

So the four laws of behavior change,

0:51.0

there's one for each stage.

0:52.3

And so make it obvious is really

0:54.2

about making the cues of your good habits obvious or making the moment of

0:58.2

action more obvious. So it's about that starting phase. Many people think they lack motivation but what they really lack is clarity.

1:05.6

So implementation intentions and habit stacking are ways to get over that. There are ways of making that

1:11.6

habit that moment of action more obvious so that it doesn't pass you by and you don't have

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