I amla, your host, your guide, a teacher for Sam and a soft place to fall for others.

And I was a miserable failure in my relationships until I loved myself enough to be able to share my love with other people.

Welcome to the R-Spot, a production of Shandaland Audio in partnership with I-Heart Radio. Welcome, welcome, welcome, welcome to the R-Spot. I am your host your facilitator your support team I am here today in service to us all creating developing sustaining growing expanding better

relationships all kinds of relationships loving relationships relationships, family ships, love ships, intimate ships, any kind of ship that we can be on or be in to make our lives and our connection with each other better.

You know, I always say that relationships are the classrooms of life.

It's where we go to learn more about ourselves and unfortunately we always

make it about the other person, what they're doing, what they're not doing, how they

doing it, and what they're doing to us and the only relationship you ever have is the one you

having with yourself. That's pretty horrible but when you think about it and what we endeavor to do with each relationship or what we want to

endeavor to do is to grow more, to heal more, to be more, to give more, so that our relationship with our self, and of course our relationship

with our source, God, Creator, whatever you call it, just becomes more

productive more joy filled and peace filled.

So how are you doing out there in your relationships and what are you seeing in your relationships

that's teaching you about yourself and when you see it do you put your head

under the pillar and scream do you run screaming from the room? You know, I always say that if you ever

want to find out how spiritual you are, get into a relationship. Because when you by yourself you're into a relationship because when you buy yourself you're spiritual all as hell

okay but then when you get into a relationship all your stuff gets triggered

and you get to see who you are.

So today I have a guest that's going to help us understand that dynamic of seeing

who we are, learning who we are, but most of all learning how to handle it.

How do you handle it when you see yourself on your partner or your children?

Oh my God, on the kids.

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