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That's part of what we're exploring here.

Please listen with an open heart, and as always, I welcome your polite, engaged feedback,

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Welcome to Query.

Hey Query Rose, Cameron here. Today on the show, actor, writer, and co-host of the

Throwing Shade podcast right here on Your Wolf, it is Brian Safi.

Brian is somebody I've known for years, but this conversation involved stuff in his life that I

had no idea about. I really love chatting with him, and I think you're going to love the episode.

I also want to encourage you to come see me live in Burlington, Vermont, April 12th through 14th

in Nashville, April 18th in Huntsville, Alabama, April 19th. Those are the shows on my current

tour that aren't sold out yet. Hey, you know what else you should do? You should buy take my

wife. Ooh, and if you buy take my wife on iTunes, Amazon, or Google Play, you should like

tweet at me and read about it because we are really excited about the show. And because of you,

it's going to get a you guessed it worldwide release on iTunes. So, oof, boy, look what you did.

Enjoy the show.

How much way from me? Okay, I can see you. I just want to look in your eyes without a giant arm.

Do you wear contacts or glasses, Ray? Are you just afraid of that? No, I have contacts in.

I know I wear glasses, but really only driving and that sort of thing. They're not too bad.

Oh, no, I have terrible vision. So, I have like really serious contacts in them.

Yeah, really serious glasses. If I have to like read off a prompt or a word context,

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