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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

#brunchtalk: When Do You Reveal Your Past Relationship History?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5877 Ratings

🗓️ 10 September 2023

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

The past is the past...but is it? We're discussing the circumstances when you should bring up your past relationship status when dating. We’re discussing what information feels misleading to withhold vs. unnecessary to share, the right time to reveal something about your relationship history, and how to move forward without feeling anchored to your past. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Our 22 Day Dating App Reset is live until Sunday Sept 10th at midnight! Join today: https://dateablepodcast.com/programs Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi I'm Yui Shoe and I'm Julie Kraftchik.

0:02.8

We're active daters turn dating sociologist.

0:05.4

Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.

0:09.0

Welcome to the dateable podcast.

0:11.0

Another. podcast. Another brunch talk. Let's go. We know you're ready. You've got your eggs

0:19.0

for tadas, pancakes, your coffee,

0:23.0

hungry for that dating advice.

0:25.0

Hey, side note, I did go to brunch with one of our community members, Tony, the other day,

0:31.0

and that man can fucking eat

0:33.6

two entrees that's attractive

0:36.8

two drinks I was like really is this are we sharing he's I know this is all

0:41.6

for me love Love it.

0:43.0

Damn.

0:44.0

But he also came back from like a six mile run

0:46.0

so that's totally different than me.

0:48.0

So we will go into this week's brunch talk question again viaunch talk we answer your burning dating questions and this question is when is the right time to reveal past relationship status in particular the very stigmatized being divorced.

1:05.0

Yes, and for more context, for first dates when past relationships aren't yet discussed,

1:10.0

it seems less important.

1:12.0

But after how many dates is it obligatory

1:14.8

mention if the other person does not explicitly ask about past

1:18.4

relationships for example being love married etc So when do you talk about it?

1:24.0

I just feel like if it's a big part of your past,

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