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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

#brunchtalk: The Biggest Lies About Falling in Love and Finding the One

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5877 Ratings

🗓️ 28 September 2025

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

With so much focus on the early stages of dating, we're often so focused on the lies we've been told about falling in love that we miss the bigger picture. Join us as we decipher fantasy from reality as we explore the idea of finding the ideal type of partner and what it takes to build an actual relationship. We discuss why the whole concept of "finding love" is flawed to begin with, the difference between a growth mindset and a destiny mindset, and the shifts to make to find not a perfect partner, but the most perfect partner FOR YOU.

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0:34.8

a red raspberry smoothie. And it's been an excellent source of

0:38.2

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