#brunchtalk: Is Being Too Interested A Turn Off?
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
4.5 • 877 Ratings
🗓️ 17 August 2025
⏱️ 21 minutes
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Summary
Sure you want someone interested but can they be too interested? Or has anyone every told you that you come off too eager? In this week's #brunchtalk episode, we're discussing the perception of interest in dating, how to move forward if someone shares this type of feedback with you, and ways that you can evaluate your own approach to dating based on how you evaluate interest levels.
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