meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

#brunchtalk: Is Bad Sex a Dealbreaker?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7910 Ratings

🗓️ 10 April 2022

⏱️ 26 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

DUN DUN DUUUUN!! Cue the dramatic music as we chat about what to do when sex is anything but hot. What do you do? How do you handle it? And is there a fighting chance for you as a couple? Whether you've been here before, you're experiencing this current day, or just want to get ahead of the situation, join us on this installment of Dateable brunch talk. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. SugarBreak: Visit www.Sugarbreak.com/DATEABLE and use the code DATEABLE for 15% off. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the Huffington Post calls one of the top 10

0:06.8

podcasts about love and sex. On each episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes,

0:16.0

and first moves to first loves.

0:17.8

I'm your host, U.S.U.

0:19.3

Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.

0:22.0

You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Kraft chick

0:25.2

as we explore this crazy dateable world.

0:28.1

What is up everyone? Welcome to another episode of Brunch Talk with us, the

0:37.6

dateable podcast hosts and every week we get into a meaty question that we've been getting through our emails and we want to

0:45.8

dissect it all for you over brunch talk. Yes and then you can take it to your own

0:50.7

branches and dissect it further with your friends or spread the gospel because we're

0:55.9

looking to have advice and dissection that empowers you at the end of the day.

1:01.8

We're not going to be analyzing every last

1:04.0

text message, that's not how we roll, we're doing the bigger topics. But the stuff

1:08.4

that's pressing, you know, keeps you up at night. Well I hope this one doesn't keep anybody up at night but here's the question.

1:16.9

Is bad sex a deal breaker? I feel like that would keep me up at night.

1:23.0

Well it's definitely not the sex that's keeping you up at night, that's for sure.

1:27.0

That's not what's keeping you up, but thinking about it.

1:30.0

And the context of this question is, this is very early stages of dating.

1:34.0

They've had sex a few times.

1:35.8

They have fun on their dates, but the sex is just not good.

1:40.0

What do you do?

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.