#brunchtalk: How do you know if you're rushing into things?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 24 July 2022

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

Whether it's defining the relationship, saying the l-word, or moving in together, how do you know when it's the right time or if things are moving too quickly? Factor in if you've had less than desirable role models, unhealthy past relationships, or limited relationship experience. Don't worry, we got you as we discuss what it even means to move 'too quickly', how fear can get in our way, and how to have these important convos with your partner (and yourself). Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Ettitude: Get 20% off your order of unbelievably soft bamboo sheets and free shipping for a limited time by going to ettitude.com/dateable Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper
0:15.3	fetishes, and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.4	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy dateable world.
0:28.1	Hi, Brunchables. Welcome to this week's episode of Brunch Talk by the
0:35.8	dateable podcast where we answer your burning dating questions and we like to be
0:41.0	generous with our answers so we will try to answer all of the
0:44.7	questions you all are sending in and we'll answer it in a way that hopefully can
0:48.7	apply to many different scenarios. But first, brunch. So for everyone that's submitted, thank you.
0:56.0	And I think what's great about this is that we do start to see patterns a lot,
1:00.0	and it's a reminder again that you're never alone in your questions so even if you are
1:06.8	thinking oh this might just apply to me send it anyways because if it does we'll
1:12.0	abstract it into something that we're seeing from the larger good.
1:16.0	And we love these questions because it does bring back so many feelings for me.
1:22.0	I just remember just being in the same boat. I feel like every
1:25.5	question has been completely relatable for me and I've been through it.
1:28.8	Yeah, I think some of them I'm in the current boat even the one today I I'm like, I can relate to some of this, so I feel like regardless of your relationship status, I feel like this stuff comes up all the time. I mean, obviously some more than than others like the one we did a couple
1:44.3	weeks ago about paying on the first date maybe that's not as relevant as if you're in a
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