#brunchtalk: How do you get better matches?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 21 August 2022

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

So you're on dating apps, but the matches you're getting are...well....less than desirable. Sound familiar? We're here to talk about how to get better matches on dating apps. We discuss changes you can make that do not involve updating your dating profile, the benefits of having less matches to choose from, and how to reframe what a good match even means. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Ettitude: Get 20% off your order of unbelievably soft bamboo sheets and free shipping for a limited time by going to ettitude.com/dateable Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper
0:15.3	fetishes, and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.4	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy dateable world.
0:28.1	Brunchables, welcome back to Brunch Talk by the Datable Podcast. We hope you're
0:36.2	enjoying your brunch or dinner or midday drink whatever you're doing or
0:40.7	having in your mouth. It's none of our business, but we hope you're enjoying it.
0:47.0	Now we got to After Dark. Here we go. I love whenever you say brunchables, it makes me think lunchables.
0:54.4	That's exactly what goes to my mind every time but it does give me a chuckle.
0:59.3	I like lunchables.
1:00.4	Well, it's like the most processed food you could ever give your kids, but it's delicious.
1:06.0	It's efficient, that's for sure.
1:08.0	It's all in that little box, but yes, we are also efficient here. We get right that down to business and give you what you're here for, you know, every brunch talk. It starts off maybe, I'm just thinking about like the brunch you go go to friends like it's you know the how
1:23.6	was everyone doing and then it just shoots right into let's get into what's going
1:28.0	on in our love lives. Yeah everyone's doing the small talk just as a courtesy, but nobody really cares.
1:34.8	Like no one's like, well, what did you do?
1:37.3	How's work going?
1:38.1	What'd you do last night?
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