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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

#brunchtalk: How can I stay emotionally open when I've been burned?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7910 Ratings

🗓️ 24 April 2022

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

Whether you've been ghosted one too many times or have had a string of dates that just didn't work out, it can be incredibly challenging to stay open to the next romantic prospect while also protecting your heart. How do you balance being hopeful while staying guarded? How do you avoid burnout and feeling like you wasted time? Join us on this installment of Dateable brunch talk as we chat about how you can balance all the things and keep your heart open for that amazing person who is just around the corner. . Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the Huffington Post calls one of the top 10

0:06.8

podcasts about love and sex. On each episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes,

0:16.0

and first moves to first loves.

0:17.8

I'm your host, U.S.U.

0:19.3

Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.

0:22.0

You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick

0:25.2

as we explore this crazy dateable world.

0:28.1

Hello brunch day.

0:33.3

Day.

0:34.3

Happy, happy brunch day.

0:36.1

Welcome to brunch talk where we dissect one question that you all have sent over and we'll

0:41.6

give our take on what we think of that question.

0:44.0

Welcome to this lovely meal that you're having.

0:48.0

I don't know what you're having but it smells delicious.

0:50.5

I feel like Sunday is the best day just because it is brunch day and you get this in your ear every Sunday now.

0:56.0

Do you get Monday scaries or Sunday scaries? It's a Sunday scaries?

1:00.0

I don't know I actually kind of enjoy Sunday nights because I feel like it's a time to chill out

1:05.0

It's a good you know TV zone free pass

1:09.1

Yeah, like don't have to think ever that night is It is nice. Do you get Sunday's scaries?

1:15.2

Oh my God totally. I don't get Sunday scaries because of work but I just get

1:18.7

Sunday scaries because I have to turn on my brain again. Like oh my God! I have to be on my brain again. I have to be on on Monday. I feel like I'm just too

1:26.7

tired on Sunday sometimes to even get scaries. You get the Sunday tires.

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