#brunchtalk: Do you need to have sex to gauge chemistry?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 18 September 2022

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

So you're seeing someone new and either you or them are not quite ready to do the deed. But how do you know if you'll have chemistry? Or are sexually compatible? On this week's brunch talk we discuss how to navigate when one partner is ready and the other isn't, how to get more comfortable having sex with someone new, and ways that you can explore your sexuality together without having penetrative sex. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper
0:15.3	fetishes, and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.4	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You'll also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy dateable world.
0:31.7	Happy brunch in everyone. Welcome to a brand new episode of Brunch Talk by the
0:37.8	Datable Podcast where we answer your burning dating questions. Oh damn damn right, we do.
0:43.5	I'm so glad to be back for another French talk.
0:46.4	It's funny because I was at a barbecue this weekend,
0:50.0	and it was me and my partner,
0:52.4	and then everyone else was a gay dude.
0:55.6	So it was like very fun talking about just like the podcast and gay versus straight.
1:01.2	Just you know views on stuff right and they were all so surprised that the
1:06.2	number one question we get is like what should I do when they don't text me back or like
1:10.7	how do I know that they like me they're like well when they don't
1:13.9	text you back they don't like you like it was just so simple everything was so
1:17.9	dumb down I know my friend's been showing me the messages he gets on these dating apps and there's one that was like,
1:24.5	hey, I think you're cute, are you top or bottom?
1:27.4	Like just straight to the point.
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