#brunchtalk: Determining If Your Situationship Could Be More (Or Not)

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 22 June 2025

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

You met someone amazing. The chemistry is incredible and you really enjoy their company. So this is obviously headed into relationship territory, right? Not always...We're discussing if your situationship could actually turn into a relationship or if it's stuck in casual territory. We're discussing what to do when you aren't fully aligned with what a relationship entails, how to gain clarity into what you actually want and need from a partner, and why everything can't fall into place dammit!

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1:05.9	Hi, I'm U-S-U and I'm Julie Craftchick.
1:08.9	We're active daters turned dating insiders. Here to dive into
1:12.3	everything, modern dating, and relationships. Welcome to Datable.
1:21.5	Hello, everyone. Welcome to another episode of brunch talk. We're alive. Hello, everyone. We are alive and you are alive, Julie. You survived. Yep, I got my raspy voice. Is this sexy or not sexy? I kind of like it. I kind of like it. I don't know. It gives you a different persona for me. Oh my God. I hope someone is like listening for the first time.
1:45.2	I was just like, what is up with this girl's voice? Although people make fun of my real voice,
1:48.9	so you can't win. Well, you got to give everybody a reason for why your voice is different.
1:54.3	Yes, coming back from The Bachelor Weekend, we will get into it in next week's episode. So make sure to tune in. We're going to recap the highs that came from it, just all the incredible time. And yeah, it was such a great weekend. I'm a little dying now. It takes me a few days to recover in my old age. But I just, I just feel so blessed. Heart is warm of all just the love.
2:18.9	And I don't know, just it's so, so beautiful.
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