#brunchtalk: Can They Love You but Not Want Anything Real?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 15 October 2023

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Is it possible for someone to love and care about you, yet still not want anything serious? Did their words mean anything? On this week's brunch talk we’re diving into the reasons someone can catch feelings yet still not want a relationship, why it's often less personal than you may think, and how to come back stronger and keep your heart open for someone ready to go all in with you. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Ewie Schu and I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:02.8	We're active daters turn dating sociologist.
0:05.4	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.0	Welcome to the dateable podcast.
0:11.0	Is. podcast. Is it time for brunch talk?
0:17.0	Yes, it's time for brunch talk.
0:19.2	Should make a jinkle.
0:21.4	Brunch talk, brunch talk. I don't know, we'll figure it out, but we are here to discuss your dating conundrums over
0:30.0	brunch because it's Sunday or whenever you're listening to this it's always a good time for a
0:35.3	brunch and we enjoy answering your questions. That's true make your pancakes on a Sunday
0:40.9	evening it doesn't matter.
0:42.6	We're here for you.
0:43.7	We're here to do the brunch talk, whatever kind is.
0:47.0	And we are here for this person who wrote in with this question,
0:50.3	which is, can someone show love and make you feel amazing but doesn't want anything real with you.
0:58.0	More details. I've been dating someone for the last year and they made me feel loved, safe, respected, and admired.
1:06.1	I saw myself building a life with this person, but he's moving and he's made it clear
1:11.1	that our relationship will be over then.
1:13.2	Was I just imagining that this was real or did he ever have feelings for me?
1:18.8	Whatever you feel in a relationship around someone it's your truth there is no debating that and I
1:27.2	used to like debate my previous self a lot like was it real did I really feel these things yeah in the moment you
1:34.4	absolutely feel these things and yes it's real but also yes and someone could
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