#brunchtalk: Are They Just a Rebound?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 8 October 2023

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

If you're fresh out of a relationship – or dating someone who is newly single – how do you know if it's real or just a rebound? We’re discussing why this term is flawed in the first place, ways to vet if someone is ready to be dating again, and how to go in with an open heart while still being cognizant of who you give it to. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Yui Shoe and I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:02.8	We're active daters turn dating sociologist.
0:05.4	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.0	Welcome to the dateable podcast.
0:11.0	Hi. podcast. of dating questions and full of dating answers to help guide you through this journey called
0:26.8	dating and these are your burning dating questions that we're about to answer in case you're
0:31.9	new to the show. case you're new to the show.
0:33.4	Okay, so the question for this episode is,
0:36.2	is the relationship you have right after a breakup
0:39.2	always considered a rebound?
0:41.2	And for more context, the listener that wrote in asks how much time and
0:46.0	healing is needed to happen for the next relationship not to be considered a
0:50.9	rebound. In my experience the average person who is out there dating
0:55.7	is not perfectly healed from all their relationship trauma and I wouldn't
0:59.7	expect them to be. We're all works in progress. Amen. We're all works in progress.
1:02.8	Amen. We are all works in progress.
1:05.2	Oh, I've thought about this one a lot in my last relationship
1:10.0	because there was a six month gap between my two year and my then five year and in those six months I focus a lot on myself a lot on what I want in my next relationship and then I climbed to Mount Kilmongaro.
1:25.0	Then it was at Kilmongaro that I said I'm ready for a relationship and that was just
1:29.8	about at the six month mark came back open myself up to dating apps etc and then met my partner of five years I would not consider that relationship rebound if so that would be the longest
1:40.6	fucking rebound ever.
1:42.8	But I did have to take a lot of intentional time off
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