Brunch, Lunch, Happy Hour Or Dinner For 1st Dates From Online Dating?
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 17 March 2026
⏱️ 17 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's |
| 0:05.8 | newsletter is going to be brunch, lunch, happy hour or dinner for first dates from online dating. |
| 0:13.8 | So this particular email is from a viewer who he, it kind of looks like he fumbled the football |
| 0:18.3 | here when he's trying to set the date and so he's basically started treating this girl like he had rapport with her already, |
| 0:25.6 | like he'd met her in person, starts talking about picking her up and open car doors and stuff like that. |
| 0:32.1 | And so he says he's read 3% man countless times, but he clearly put his foot in his mouth and got ghosted, |
| 0:38.3 | and he's going, what happened? It's also possible the woman just didn't have high enough interest |
| 0:42.8 | in him, but obviously as I go through this email, you'll see there's some things he should have done |
| 0:47.8 | differently. So the idea is if you meet somebody in person and you spend 10, 15 minutes hanging out talking, |
| 0:57.0 | chit-chatting, you have a little bit more rapport, especially if you meet them through work, |
| 1:01.0 | or you're at a friend's party, or a social gathering where you've got mutual friends in common. |
| 1:07.0 | In those cases, you're going to get the phone number, you're going to pick her up, take her out, because you've got mutual friends at common. Now, with online dating, where you haven't met her, you're typically, ideally, because you don't know if she looks like her pictures, especially these days with AI and all the hookers that are on the dating apps. You want to make sure you're dealing with a real human being. |
| 1:28.3 | And so ideally, especially guys that are on a budget, you're going to want to meet somewhere |
| 1:32.0 | where you're basically, like maybe a wine bar is probably one of the best type of dates you |
| 1:38.4 | could do because if you don't like her, if she doesn't look like her pictures, you're out |
| 1:42.8 | a glass of wine and then you could be on your way. |
| 1:46.0 | But if it goes well, then that glass of wine can turn into a dinner someplace close by that you can walk or a short taxi ride away. |
| 1:55.0 | And then if dinner goes well, then you can have some place fun to go afterwards, like bowling or miniature golf or shooting darts or playing pool, doing video games, something like that. |
| 2:07.0 | The third place you go should be to facilitate physical interaction, usually around hour four or five of your date. |
| 2:15.8 | So let's go through this particular guy's email and see what he did. He says, |
| 2:20.7 | Hey, Corey, it's been a few years since you made a video about my situation ship with a coworker. |
| 2:26.3 | Since then, my life has drastically improved. I have lived in multiple cities, become a partner |
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