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Pardon the Mess with Scarlet Hiltibidal - Christian Motherhood, Biblical Parenting, Raising Christian Kids

Broken trust & healing tough relationships with Lysa TerKeurst

Pardon the Mess with Scarlet Hiltibidal - Christian Motherhood, Biblical Parenting, Raising Christian Kids

Scarlet Hiltibidal and Christian Parenting

Religion & Spirituality, Kids & Family, Christianity, Parenting

4.9849 Ratings

🗓️ 10 October 2024

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

It’s an absolute delight to have my dear friend Lysa TerKeurst on the podcast today. Lysa has been sharing her deepest struggles through writing books, devotionals and bible studies for decades. She has a beautiful way combining biblical truth and heartfelt empathy that makes us all feel less alone. 


In today’s episode, we discuss TRUST and DISTRUST. She shares that when you starve a relationship from trust - it’s like not giving a human air to breathe. I can imagine that many of you are working through some trust issues - we all are. Whether it’s a broken friendship or marriage or a strained relationship with a family member or dear friend. It can be really hard to manage the healing and repairing process for yourself and even more difficult when it involves your children. 


One of my favorite parts is when she talks about the importance of healing in a community. She shares how natural it can be to isolate when you’re hurt - but trust rebuilds in community. I am praying this episode touches a tender topic with such encouragement and practical help.


In this episode we discuss:

  • Why trust is crucial to all human relationships
  • How to manage broken hearts and relationships while raising kids
  • How to move towards healing with resilience 


Enjoy!

Courtney


00:00

Practical Wisdom and Biblical Truth: A Conversation on Trust and Distrust

03:16

The Impact of Broken Trust: Emotional Abuse and Betrayal Trauma

15:24

Triggers and Discernment: Patterns of Behavior and Self-Exploration

32:55

Resilience and Healing: Overcoming Broken Trust


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Resources from today’s show:

LysaTerKeurst.com

I Want To Trust You, But I Can’t - Lysa’s newest book

Dr Amen and Lysa - her brain scan

EMDR Therapy

WOW - root cover up


Pardon The Mess is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org



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0:00.0

Christian Parenting.

0:08.0

Welcome to Pardon the Miss.

0:09.4

I'm your host, Courtney DeFaio, and on this podcast, we talk about raising kids as Christian parents.

0:14.2

It's so very important for me to honor God with my family and the two kids that he's given me.

0:18.6

But honestly, it's not always neat or easy or tidy,

0:22.0

but it's always worth it. So join us every week to laugh and learn together on this beautiful

0:26.2

and messy journey of parenting.

0:43.8

So let me begin by saying that you might hear some banging because we're getting a new roof this week and they are trying to finish up, but I'm telling you, this dog will not stop barking.

0:49.4

She thinks her someone at the door every two seconds. I'm like, oh, good thing you're pretty,

0:53.4

because you are really not smart. She really gets, like, completely freaked out at all the bagings. So,

0:58.3

I was leaving earlier to take her to doggy daycare, to get her out of my way, and to stop the barking,

1:03.2

and I was going to the car, can't get her to come on because she's licking a chicken bone. I'm like,

1:08.0

where did you find a chicken bone? Apparently, folks that were doing the

1:11.0

roof yesterday decided to have lunch in my yard and just left the wings there, like the leftover

1:15.3

bones. So that's fine. That's what's going on here. But today we have a very exciting guest. I

1:21.0

don't know how I get from chicken wings to Lisa, but it feels right for me. So dear friend, lover to pieces,

1:27.2

Lisa Turkhurst, if you don't know who she is,

1:29.4

she is the president and founder of Proverbs 31 Ministries that reaches millions of women and people

1:34.9

across the globe. Really, she's been writing for decades, author of so many fantastic books and

1:40.4

Bible studies and one of the best speakers I've ever heard. But the last, I would probably

1:44.7

say, I'm guessing here, maybe five or six books that she's done have all gone New York Times

1:48.6

bestseller and just blown things out of the water. And here's my hypothesis. Here's why I think

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