Welcome to the Girl on Top, Shalin XO podcast. I'm your host

Shalin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel where I

analyze celebrities and scandals for the lessons and you might know me from my YouTube channel where I analyze

celebrities and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives.

But here on the podcast I answer the best questions you submitted over the past week

and today we're going to be talking about guys who are allegedly to

afford a date and the best mentality you need to take into your dating life as

opposed to the absolute worst thing you can tell yourself. And just a reminder that if you want to chat privately

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So this first question comes from a young lady named Ellen and she basically talks about I won't read it verbatim because it's long and kind of rambly so I'll just this one time I'm just going to sum it up but basically she said that her first love they broke up a

little while ago and now he's moved on and he's engaged and she's just like in a spiral

about it because obviously it's hard for your first love to move on but what I thought was so

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