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Hello Monday with Jessi Hempel

Brian Lowery on understanding the social self

Hello Monday with Jessi Hempel

LinkedIn

Careers, Business

4.81.1K Ratings

🗓️ 3 April 2023

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

We’re independent! We make our own choices and do our own thing, and march to the beat of our own drum. Right? Turns out, not nearly as much as we thought. In today’s conversation, Jessi visits with Brian Lowery. He’s a social psychologist who runs the Leadership for Society program at the Stanford Business School. His new book is SELFLESS: The Social Construction of “You.” And he’s here to explain that we are all influenced by others, just as we are influencing them, too. Brian shares his philosophy of the social self alongside thoughts on how we can make big changes to ourselves and our communities - by being more consciously in community. Follow Brian Lowery on LinkedIn, and check out his book, SELFLESS. Follow Jessi Hempel on LinkedIn and order her debut memoir. Join the Hello Monday community: Subscribe to the Hello Monday newsletter, and join us on the LinkedIn News page for Hello Monday Office Hours, Wednesdays at 3p ET.

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0:00.0

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0:05.5

challenges facing the industry. Join this global broadcast event on October 3rd and 4th.

0:10.9

Register today at linkedintalentconnect.com slash podcast.

0:18.4

LinkedIn News

0:25.2

From the news team at LinkedIn, I'm Jesse Hempel and this is Hello Monday.

0:29.4

It's our show about the changing nature of work and how that work is changing us.

0:34.3

Now last fall, my wife and I set out to replace our car. Our family had expanded by a couple

0:40.8

of kids and seemed to be a dog and the car had not. We did all this research before we even went

0:46.8

shopping. I borrowed my dad's subscription to consumer reports. We made a spreadsheet, we listed

0:52.6

every type of vehicle. We made these calculated bets on whether we thought the electric charge

0:57.5

infrastructure was going to improve in Brooklyn in the next decade. And then we chose our car.

1:03.0

We brought it home. And immediately, everywhere around us, everyone seemed to have this car.

1:10.1

A quarter of the people in our building have this same car. I know because I look out the window

1:14.5

into our parking lot every day and I see it. They're even the same color. You know, I thought we were

1:19.3

being so original, but as it turned out, we'd had the same idea as everyone else. It pretty much

1:25.5

the exact same time. That's how decisions work, of course. We're influenced in all kinds of

1:31.5

subtle ways by so many things around us. Just ask anybody in the marketing field. I mean, they

1:37.4

probably knew before I did what kind of car we would get. But I'm an American. And more specifically,

1:43.2

a product of this moment in history. I have been raised on this notion of the self. I'm independent.

1:50.5

I make my own decisions. As my two-year-old says all the time, I can do it myself.

1:57.6

So what exactly is the self?

2:01.7

Today's guest is Brian Lowry. He's a social psychologist and he runs the leadership for

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