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All right, let's talk about limits. I was talking with a friend of mine recently. We'll call him

Kurt. It's not his real name, you know, trying to protect the ego of the innocent and all.

Kurt is a very successful guy, but he kept talking about how he had hit his limit.

He kept saying how he achieved his max in business, in his health, in his marriage.

And he said it with a sense of pride, which is probably the part that bothered me the most.

I almost just let it go, but that is not what good friends do. So I said, you know that's bullshit-talkie, right? I blurted. I know, I could have been more

tactful, I'm sure. What's bull-shit-talkie? he asked with a stunned look on his face.

Admittedly I was purposely trying to break his head or his mental pattern. This

bull shitaki about your limits, you hitting your max in all, I said.

What do you mean? he asked.

Kurt, you gotta be careful how you talk. The shtaki that you say to yourself, I said, man.

Look, it sounds like you're doing great in all, which I'm really happy for. But this isn't your limit, man. It's not even close. You're nowhere near your quote-unquote max. You don't even know what your max is, buddy.

Neither do I. But I guarantee you this certainly ain't it. For you or for me.

Now the perplexed look on his face begged for a rant. So I gave him one.

I said, I absolutely disagree with this idea that you keep promoting that you've ever find your limit. Now you can find your current limit, but you will never find your actual limit.

Are you with me? I asked. Not waiting for a response, I just continued. there are no limits to your capacity you are

limitless the only limits that you have are the ones that you self-imposed but it is

imaginary it's made up and it's very limiting and kind of annoying.

I'll give you a for instance, I said. When you started lifting weights, the barbell by

itself was your bench weight limit. Do you remember that?

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