Hey everyone it's your girl Breini Lee and welcome to the Pep Talk

podcast where we have real raw relatable conversations with the pep talk you need.

You have the power to create your future, the choices that you made today.

What do you bring to the table, baby I am the table?

Love yourself a little bit more than that ladies come on

dust settles Queens don't and don't forget know your worth and then attacks

period okay so let's get into it.

Boyfriend material versus husband material.

You know how they always say you cannot turn a hole into a housewife?

Well, you can literally not turn a boyfriend into husband material either. Why? Because they're two different things. The material that makes a boyfriend and the material that makes a husband is completely different.

Okay?

One is very cheaply priced, the other is very high in value.

And the reason why a lot of women frustrate themselves

is because they're literally trying to make this boyfriend

someone that is worthy of a long-time commitment and it just is not going to work.

And some of you are probably confused like well shouldn't your husband be your boyfriend first? Well obviously there's a pro se well,

obviously there's a process to the whole dating to marriage, obviously, right?

However, what I'm talking about is the mindset, okay?

The mindset of a husband? The mindset of a

forever boyfriend is completely different. So when I met my current partner and

I hate to say the word boyfriend, I just feel like it's so immature I just feel like it

doesn't actually explain the depth of the relationship that we have okay and then

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