BOYFRIEND CLAIMS MURDER WAS REALLY JUST ROUGH SEX
Crime Stories with Nancy Grace
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🗓️ 29 October 2024
⏱️ 41 minutes
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Summary
RJ McLeod and Krystal Mitchell meet when she shows him an apartment. McLeod, a large man, is a bodybuilder and former Marine. As they start dating, Krystal tells her mother about this new man in her life, noting that he is also a devoted father to his son. Krystal confides in McLeod about her issues with a stalker, and McLeod gives her a gun for protection.
The pair travels to California to visit some of RJ’s friends in San Diego. After socializing with his friends, RJ and Krystal head to a local bar for a few drinks. They return to the condo after 1 a.m. About an hour later, the friend’s wife hears a woman sobbing, followed by a sound like “ah,” and then silence.
The next morning, McLeod greets the friend’s wife as he passes through the kitchen on his way out of the apartment. The friend and his wife leave, but when the friend returns around 1 p.m., he finds the apartment silent. He opens the guest bedroom door and immediately calls 911.
McLeod’s friend finds Krystal Mitchell in bed, partially nude, bloody, and deceased. On the 911 call, he initially tells the dispatcher, “this is a homicide.” He adds that he tried unsuccessfully to revive her. Investigators later determine there were clear signs of a struggle, with furniture shifted around the room. Krystal Mitchell sustained numerous injuries, including blunt force trauma to her face and torso. She had been strangled, with multiple fractures around her neck.
Investigators learn that McLeod returned to a nearby bar around noon to pay his tab from the night before and retrieve his credit card. He tells a waitress he has a “flight to catch.” McLeod takes Krystal Mitchell’s car to the San Diego airport, parks it, rents a different car, and drives into Mexico. Police name RJ McLeod as a person of interest in Krystal Mitchell’s death, and officials issue a warrant for his arrest on murder charges.
For six years, investigators believe McLeod is hiding in Central America or Mexico. Reports emerge of sightings in Guatemala, Belize, and Mexico, but McLeod remains elusive. Authorities finally capture him in El Salvador and return him to the United States, where he claims Krystal’s death was a case of rough sex gone wrong.
Joining Nancy Grace Today:
- Josephine Wentzel - Krystal Mitchell's Mother
- Eric Faddis – Partner at Varner Faddis Elite Legal; Former Felony Prosecutor and Current Criminal Defense and Civil Litigation Attorney; Instagram: @e_fad @varnerfaddis; TikTok: @varnerfaddis
- Sheryl McCollum – Forensics Expert & Cold Case Investigative Research Institute Founder; Host of Podcast: “Zone 7;” X: @149Zone7
- Dr. Marlena Ryba - Clinical Psychologist and Research Consultant at Dr. Long and Associates; LINKEDIN: marlenamryba
- Dr. Priya Banerjee – Board Certified Forensic Pathologist, Anchor Forensic Pathology Consulting; X: @Autopsy_MD
- Lauren Conlin – Investigative Journalist, Host of The Outlier Podcast, and also Host of “Corruption: What Happened to Grant Solomon; X- @Conlin_Lauren/ Instagram- @LaurenEmilyConlin/YouTube- @LaurenConlin4
- IIrv Brandt – Senior Inspector, US Marshals Service International Investigations Branch; Chief Inspector, DOJ Office of International Affairs, US Embassy Kingston, Jamaica; Author: “SOLO SHOT: CURSE OF THE BLUE STONE” – AVAILABLE ON AMAZON IN JANUARY; ALSO “FLYING SOLO: Top of the World;” Twitter: @JackSoloAuthorr
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| 0:00.0 | Crime Stores with Nancy Grace. |
| 0:05.0 | A boyfriend claims |
| 0:08.0 | claims murder was really just rough sex. That's the defense. This after bounty hunters and |
| 0:21.0 | U.S. Marshals chase this guy, McLeod, all the way around the world after |
| 0:28.8 | he murders a beautiful young mom. he tells me it was quote rough sex sex gone wrong |
| 0:39.7 | really a little girl is left without her mother because of sex gone wrong. |
| 0:47.0 | I'm Nancy Grace. This is crime stories. Thank you for being with us. |
| 0:52.0 | A gorgeous 30 yearold is excited to travel to San Diego with her new boyfriend. |
| 0:57.0 | Little did she know, that would be her final trip. |
| 1:00.0 | Crystal was a visitor in San Diego. |
| 1:05.0 | She loved San Diego. |
| 1:06.0 | And she came here frequently from Phoenix. |
| 1:09.0 | And her last word about San Diego was mom. |
| 1:14.8 | I'm going to move there. |
| 1:16.4 | She didn't know she was going to be killed here. |
| 1:18.7 | And so I have so many memories of her coming to San Diego. I have a lot of things hanging in my house and cups and stuff because she loved San Diego. |
| 1:29.0 | She was a lovely mother. She was beautiful, inside out. She was beautiful and she was a single mom unsuspecting of this man who she was |
| 1:39.6 | a property manager and this man came by to get an apartment and that's how they met. |
| 1:45.0 | He came across as a doting dad and that's one thing she said was he loves his son. He absolutely loves his son and that was a |
| 1:54.7 | quality that every single mom out there will look for is a man who loves his |
| 1:58.8 | child. You are hearing Crystal's mother who is left with nothing but memories of her. |
| 2:05.6 | And now this perp says it was sex gone wrong. |
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