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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Boundaries With The Opposite Sex: A Conversation With My Husband (Part 2)

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Christianity, Talk Radio, Default, Religion & Spirituality

4.8 • 808 Ratings

🗓️ 7 October 2019

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

Boundaries with the opposite sex may not be something we're comfortable talking about, but it's a necessary conversation. It's easy to say we should have boundaries in a marriage, but then actually talking through the specifics of what those boundaries look like is something most couples don't actually sit down to do. A few years ago in the media, a political leader who talked about his boundaries with the opposite sex sparked a fury of heated conversations around the country. In fact, an article about this very topic on my blog sparked some additional controversy as well. It's clear this is a topic people don't always agree on. So what's too much when it comes to boundaries, and what is not enough? Boundaries With the Opposite Sex What does it practically look like to protect your marriage by setting boundaries, specifically with your interactions with the opposite sex? Last week on the Love + Relationships Podcast we talked through the boundaries we set with our emotions, and today on the podcast we're talking through the boundaries we set up with our interactions on Part 2 of this three part series with my husband. The conversation you're about to hear is about the things WE have chosen to do for our marriage. You may agree with some of it, and you may not...but let's start by having the conversation, and getting comfortable talking through it. Click the buttons below to subscribe and check out Episode 40 of the Love + Relationships Podcast! Want to be on the Love + Relationships Podcast?  Go to truelovedates.com/loveandrelationships/ to submit your question and learn more. SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER - SPOTIFY - GOOGLE PLAY -  iHEART RADIO Love + Relationships Podcast Extras: For another great episode of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out: 5 Differences That Cause Stress in Marriage BOOKS BY DEBRA Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life.  (Debra's New Book: Love In Every Season Coming January 2020, Pre-Order Today!) And Check out Debra's Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She's also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book a session with her today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey, friends, welcome back to the love and relationships podcast. I'm your host, Deborah Felita,

0:23.8

and I'm so glad you're tuning into these candid conversations about love, sex, dating, singleness, and marriage.

0:30.4

For those of you who don't know me or are tuning in for the first time, I'm a licensed professional

0:35.1

counselor and author specializing in relationship issues.

0:38.4

I also run the Relationship Advice blog True Love Dates.com, reaching millions of people with the message

0:44.9

that healthy people make healthy relationships.

0:48.5

If you've tuned into the podcast before, you know it's a hotline style show, meaning people

0:53.6

call in or write in with their

0:55.1

relationship questions and I answer them on this show in short, practical, bite-sized

1:00.1

answers. If you have a question that you want me to answer on the show, send it via email or

1:05.6

voice memo to Deborah at true lovedates.com or check out my podcast page, true lovedates.com slash love and

1:13.0

relationships. And I'll do my best to get it answered on one of the episodes. So let's get

1:17.6

started.

1:23.0

Hey, everyone. It's good to be with you again, joining us for part two of how to protect your marriage.

1:31.5

And today we're talking about the second thing that John and I are very deliberate about

1:37.3

doing and protecting our relationship.

1:39.9

And that's protecting our interactions.

1:43.3

It's so important to be deliberate with the choices that we're making concerning the world

1:49.7

around us.

1:50.3

Like we're talking about external things from our emails to our body language.

1:57.2

What we're doing with our interactions is something we've got to be aware of,

2:01.1

and it's important for us to honor our spouses in everything we do,

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