Boundaries with an Abusive Father & Preparing for Holiday Family Drama

The Dr. John Delony Show

Ramsey Network

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Relationships

4.8 • 5.9K Ratings

🗓️ 13 November 2020

⏱️ 51 minutes

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The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So send us your questions at johndelony.com/show or leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 3:07: Teaching Segment: Family Boundaries During the Holidays 14:25: My husband has been drinking a lot since his parents died and I am having a hard time with it. 29:35: I was sexually abused by my father when I was young. He is trying to engage with my family and I'm not sure how to handle it Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life - Henry Cloud tags: boundaries, family, alcoholism, marriage, resentment, bitterness, counseling, sexual abuse, Henry Cloud These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately.

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0:00.0	Hey on Today's Show, we're going to talk about adult themes and so be sensitive and be careful for the young ears in the room.
0:06.3	I also want to point out that we take live calls and we often don't know where they're going to go and so today's show can feel kind of jarring.
0:13.9	We talk about family boundaries around the holidays and it's fun, it's lighthearted, I'm being silly.
0:19.7	And then we get into a couple of calls that are really hard. They're also about boundaries, about setting boundaries with addicts, about setting boundaries with abuse.
0:28.0	Stay tuned.
0:30.0	Hey what's up, what's up I'm John and this is the Dr. John Deloni Show. It's a live show where we show up and walk alongside people who are struggling.
0:51.0	Folks who are trying to do the next right thing and fellow human beings who are learning how to be human beings again.
0:58.0	We talk about everything on the show, anything and everything, no matter what's going on in your heart, in your mind, in your family, in your workplace.
1:05.0	There are so, so many people across your state, across your country, across the world who are going through very similar things and it just takes one person to be brave, one person that just reaches out and says I don't know what to do.
1:18.0	And you're going to help so many other people.
1:21.0	And on this show we talk about falling in and out of love, we talk about loss, we talk about family issues, scratching and clawing for hope.
1:31.0	We may even talk about, hey here's a deal, this weekend, this happened.
1:36.0	If you're not a hunter, just hit the little forward button a couple of times and pass this.
1:42.0	My son and I went squirrel hunting this weekend and we eat the squirrels and I know that makes us weird like we are from the 1400s but it is what it is.
1:51.0	We are hunting squirrels and I got a squirrel and I was clean in the squirrel and my daughter showed up and she's four and a half and she looked at it or she's almost five now.
2:03.0	And she was like, yeah, yeah, but she likes to eat them and so we talked about the cleaning process and we're just having regular conversation.
2:12.0	Well, that night we do our bed pile, we read books and stories and then we turn the lights off and I tell my daughter, hey, I love you.
2:22.0	Have a great sleep.
2:23.0	Oh, you have great dreams.
2:25.0	And as I was walking out of the room, she says, daddy, this is pitch black and I turn and say, yeah, baby.
2:33.0	And she said and I quote, you know that squirrel doesn't forgive you, right?
2:38.0	So awesome. And I said, honey, you are right. That squirrel is not going to forgive me.
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