Boundaries for Non-Christian Friendships
Ask Pastor John
Desiring God
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🗓️ 28 May 2013
⏱️ 4 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Pastor John, what balance or boundaries should we have regarding our friendships with non-Christians? |
| 0:11.6 | We have to find the line between ignoring two seemingly opposite commands. |
| 0:24.7 | One is, do not be deceived, bad company ruins good morals, 1 Corinthians 15, 33, or your |
| 0:38.3 | boasting is not good. |
| 0:40.6 | Do you not know a little leaven, leavens the whole lump, Paul is talking about tolerating |
| 0:50.8 | people in the church that you should excommunicate. |
| 0:54.4 | Now on the other side, whoever walks with the wise becomes wise. |
| 1:02.9 | But the companion of fools will suffer harm, Proverbs 13. |
| 1:06.7 | Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the wicked, stands not in the way of |
| 1:10.8 | sinners, sits not in the seats of scoffers. |
| 1:12.9 | So you got all these commands and wisdom Proverbs on the one side that say, watch out, |
| 1:21.1 | hanging out with corrupt people can lead to your corruption. |
| 1:26.9 | Now on the other side, of course, you got Jesus who not only ate with text collectors |
| 1:31.8 | and sinners, but he was called the friend of text collectors and sinners because that's |
| 1:37.1 | in fact what he did so often. |
| 1:39.7 | And you got Paul saying, if you take me as me, when I say don't hang out or separate |
| 1:46.7 | yourself from sexually immoral people, if you think I mean the world, then that won't |
| 1:51.6 | work because then you'd have to go out of the world for Corinthians 5.9. |
| 1:55.0 | He doesn't mean don't associate with greedy, swindlers, idolaters. |
| 1:59.1 | Since then you would need to go out of the world, he says in 1 Corinthians 5.9. |
| 2:03.0 | So Paul is with Jesus and saying, no, you're going to be thrown together with these people, |
| 2:07.5 | you should take opportunities, you've become all things to all people in a biblical way. |
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