They just assume like, oh, how about you and Brian can't keep your hands off of each other.

And it's like, I think people would be really disappointed to hear currently about our sex life.

And I'm okay with it that it's not living up to the expectations that people think of us.

We are long removed from the fantasy suite.

So Brian, will you accept this, Rose?

Yes, absolutely.

And frankly, too, because I'm just tired these days.

I'm exhausted and I wish more people would talk about that, right?

What's up, lovers and friends?

Welcome to Lovers and Friends of Podcasts, where we talk about all things intimacy,

relationships, love, sex.

Every week, I, Sham, Bujram, intimacy, expert, and sexologists is bringing you real knowledge from research

and real experiences from my guests so that you can reflect and work on your own intimate life.

So far, we've covered topics like how to enter the world of consensual non-monogamy,

tips from gay men on how to be better in bed, and how to creatively tell your partner

how to have mind-blowing sex with you.

This is why I am living for this week's topic.

Actually, I'm going to phrase our opening question,

how our starring guest from this week, Rachel Lindsay, loosely worded it to me.

What do you do if you're in a place where you are madly in love with your partner,

and madly in love with the moves and choices you're making in life?

But one of those choices is to put your sex life on the back burner,

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