Hey deserving listeners, I thought I would answer patron emails.

So let's do that today.

This is the Psychology in Seattle Podcast.

I'm your host, Dr. Kirk Honda, I'm a therapist and a professor,

and someone who loves to answer patron emails.

This first emails from patron Rachel from Portland, she writes, I dated a woman briefly and I'm trying to let go of her. She has done some odd things that I can't

figure out. For example, she walked into the break room at work and announce to a handful of people that she attempted suicide

a couple of nights before.

So just chiming in.

She dated someone and she is having a hard time letting go over or at least but

back when she wrote this email and she has a bunch of questions about her

behavior and she walked into the

walked into the break room at work and announced to a handful of people

she had attempted suicide a couple nights before

she downloaded all her childhood trauma to me on our second date.

She shit talks everyone. She ended our dating relationship for the second time, then started it up again randomly.

She will randomly state she doesn't like something, like talking about poop, then later she

tells me she pooped and what it was like. She constantly talks about her ex. She will

allude to things that seem inappropriate like you you don't want to know what's

going on in my head or you don't you don't know what I'm

actually hoping for. On our fourth date she asked if I snored and talked about how her dog could get along with my cats and if I wanted kids.

She seems to think she cares, it seems to think she cares about people but doesn't ask questions.

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