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Invisibilia

BONUS: Who Do You Let In?

Invisibilia

NPR

Social Sciences, Personal Journals, Society & Culture, Science

4.522.6K Ratings

🗓️ 16 October 2018

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

An uncomfortable encounter with a stranger sets producer Abby Wendle on a quest to answer the question: who do you let in and who do you keep out? In her search for balance between openness and caution – she navigates the struggles of her long-distance relationship and chats up musician John Prine.

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0:00.0

A friend of mine who likes science once told me this thing that's always stayed with me,

0:03.7

even though I'm not even sure that it's true.

0:05.9

She told me that even when you feel like you are physically touching someone, you're

0:11.5

not.

0:12.5

There's always a space between you, an atom of distance or something like that.

0:17.2

And that is what today's story is about.

0:19.9

The problems of connecting and the need to connect.

0:23.5

It's from one of the producers of Invisibilia, Abby Wendell.

0:27.1

Hello, hello.

0:30.4

Hello.

0:31.4

Hello.

0:32.4

Who do we let into our lives?

0:35.4

Hello.

0:36.4

Hello.

0:37.4

No.

0:38.4

And who do we keep at a distance?

0:41.7

Can you hear me?

0:43.4

Do I sound like I'm coming out of a log?

0:47.6

I can hear you very well.

0:50.2

And how do we decide?

0:52.0

Like how do we draw the line between being careful so we don't let in somebody we don't

0:56.1

want and being open so we don't drown from the loneliness of life?

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