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Nobody Should Believe Me

BONUS: Unabridged Interview with Carly Ostler

Nobody Should Believe Me

True Story Media

True Crime, Personal Journals, Society & Culture

4.32.3K Ratings

🗓️ 26 September 2024

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

On this week’s unabridged interview from season 4, Andrea chats with trauma therapist Carly Ostler. The two of them dive into what complex trauma is, the difference between PTSD and complex PTSD, and the co-dependent nature of abusive families. Carly explains why abuse from parental figures affects survivors so deeply, as well as the complexity of grieving an abuser.  * * * Links/Resources:  Learn more about Carly: https://www.carlyostler.com/ Preorder Andrea's new book The Mother Next Door: Medicine, Deception, and Munchausen by Proxy Click here to view our sponsors. Remember that using our codes helps advertisers know you’re listening and helps us keep making the show! Subscribe on YouTube where we have full episodes and lots of bonus content. Follow Andrea on Instagram for behind-the-scenes photos: @andreadunlop Buy Andrea's books here. To support the show, go to Patreon.com/NobodyShouldBelieveMe or subscribe on Apple Podcasts where you can get all episodes early and ad-free and access exclusive ethical true crime bonus content. For more information and resources on Munchausen by Proxy, please visit MunchausenSupport.com The American Professional Society on the Abuse of Children’s MBP Practice Guidelines can be downloaded here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello, it's Andrea. A quick spoiler alert if you haven't yet listened to all of season four, but we had a rather big plot twist with the sudden death of Joe's mom while we were making this season.

0:14.0

Now losing a parent is always a huge deal but when your relationship with them was

0:18.4

fractured there are just so many added layers of complexity which is why I was so glad to talk to

0:24.7

Carly Osler, a therapist who specializes in complex PTSD and complex grief.

0:30.4

As ever on this show, I found that their advice was not only helpful in the context of the season, but helpful to me in understanding a bunch of my own feelings, and I think that you'll get a lot out of listening to the full conversation.

0:43.6

In the meantime, a reminder that we're now on YouTube, so if video is your jam and you want to see

0:48.6

my face, you can find us there.

0:50.8

And if you want even more new episodes while you're waiting on season five, you can

0:54.7

subscribe on Apple, Podcast, and on Patreon. If you have a moment, leaving us a nice review or

0:59.9

rating also helps a great deal. Now here is my conversation with Carly

1:04.2

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1:27.8

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1:35.0

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1:41.5

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1:45.1

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1:49.8

your kitchen table with your mail-in ballot as the case may be.

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