Sharing the stories of the foster care community.

This is The Forgotten Podcast.

Our son came out of this chaotic orphanage situation into our house, and we're a very quiet family.

My other kids are readers.

You know, we didn't have on a lot of noise or anything.

And I could tell it drove him crazy.

It was like his brain hurt from being in our quiet

house. So he would run around making noise and creating noise. And I remember after he left,

my ears like ached because it was so quiet. Hey there.

Hey there, I'm Jamie Cabe, and welcome back to thegotten podcast where we are sharing the stories of the foster care community.

Today's episode is a special one. Not long ago, my team and I got to spend the weekend at Replanted

conference, a conference in Naperville, Illinois that provides a time away for caregivers to be refreshed,

equipped, and inspired. While there, I had the privilege of speaking at some breakout sessions

and also doing a live recording for this podcast. I sat down with Jesse and with Carrie, and I want to

tell you just a little bit about these two.

Jesse Hogset was diagnosed with reactive attachment disorder at a very young age.

He experienced incredible trauma as a young child and as he grew older.

However, God has done a mighty work in him, and I cannot wait for you to hear more about

this. Carrie O'Toole is a board-certified Christian life coach. She helps parents who have children that have

experienced trauma and are struggling with attachment. She helps these parents deal with their own grief, trauma,

and everyday hurt. Not only is Carrie a coach, but she also adopted a child who experienced RAD.

And after eight years of therapy, special education, surgeries, prayer, doctor visits,

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