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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

BONUS: The Worst Dating Advice...from Dating Coaches

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7910 Ratings

🗓️ 20 January 2021

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

We're saying RIP to some of the worst dating advice we've heard from dating coaches. In this week's bonus episode, we'll discuss why certain dating advice should not be taken if you want to be in a healthy relationship, how certain advice is so outdated despite being given today, and how freaking good it feels to say f*ck the rules! Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Kensington Books: Check out the latest title by Kate Pearce The Rancher Meets His Match. Available on Kensingtonbooks.com or wherever books are sold. Thrive Cosmetics: Get 15% off your first purchase at https://thrivecausemetics.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE Gobble: Get 6 meals for $36 plus free shipping visit gobble.com/dateable Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the

0:04.8

Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each

0:09.5

episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper

0:15.3

fetishes, and first moves to first loves.

0:17.8

I'm your host, U.S.U.

0:19.4

Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.

0:22.0

You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick

0:25.2

as we explore this crazy datable world.

0:28.1

Hello everyone, welcome to another episode of

0:33.8

dateable a show all about modern dating where we really try to dig into the

0:39.4

wise of people's behavior and what drives them to do the things they do when it comes to

0:45.2

dating, relationships, love, and sex and that includes your own motives for your own behavior.

0:51.2

We're still in the off season. We're ramping up for season 12 which is going to be another

0:56.0

groundbreaking amazing season but in the meantime we have these bonus

1:00.8

episodes for you that Julie and I planned out and this

1:03.2

episode in particular is about bad advice we've received or have heard from

1:09.2

dating coaches in the past yes I think everyone could I feel like the advice ones are always super popular, but I love the angle of bad advice because we all know at dateable. We're not like rules followers. We don't love like hard fast advice and I think historically in the

1:26.5

dating coaching realm and you know like the bad dating books that we got were all about like

1:31.7

black and white advice and part of why I think that has

1:35.4

inspired us to make dateable for that reason alone to debunk some of it.

1:39.4

And let's just unravel that a little bit. Why is it that the world is filled with bad dating advice,

1:46.6

especially for these dating experts and coaches?

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