Bonus – The 9 Personality Patterns and the Enneagram with Dr. Dan Siegel (267)

Therapist Uncensored Podcast

Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP & Ann Kelley PhD

Social Sciences, Society & Culture, Science, Relationships, Education, Self-improvement

4.7 • 1.5K Ratings

🗓️ 13 May 2025

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

Alongside co-host Sue Marriott, Dr. Dan Siegel explores how loss, vulnerability, and connection shape personal growth and healing. He discusses the science of attachment and personality, highlighting nine
adaptive patterns that emerge from non-secure attachment. The conversation also explores how neuroscience sheds light on emotional needs, alongside Siegel’s personal reflections on his own attachment history and path as a professional. Together they unpack how neuroscience, motivation, and community impact therapy. The episode offers practical insights for clinicians, emphasizing a compassionate, non-shaming approach to mental health and the journey toward secure attachment and the feeling of wholeness.

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0:00.0	Temperament is what you're born with, but the level of functioning that is the adaptive strategy
0:08.0	is determined by your attachment.
0:10.3	So it gives a therapist basically this really cool model from nature that looks like it's just
0:16.2	a part of what it means to be human that allows you to take the serenity prayer and say, can I have the
0:22.2	serenity to accept the things I cannot change, which is really the deep temperament we have,
0:26.5	is probably not very changeable. Can I have the courage to change the things I can, which is the
0:31.6	adaptive strategy and its level of functioning? And I have the wisdom to know the difference
0:37.4	so that you're not trying
0:39.3	to change the fundamental temperament of your client, which I think ultimately is not going to be
0:45.1	productive. So it lets you change the level of adaptive strategy that determines the level of
0:51.7	personality. So it's either a prison or you move it toward a playground in the person's life.
0:57.5	Hope you enjoy a preview of this full episode published exclusively as a bonus for our incredible online neuro-nerd community.
1:05.4	This group is the backbone that keeps this podcast thriving, and you can find out more at Therapeutuncensored.com slash join.
1:18.2	So many of you are very familiar with the work of Dr. Dan Siegel.
1:23.0	He's been on this podcast many times, and I'm so happy to have him back. This conversation
1:29.4	is very different from any of the others. He is much more personal. You're certain to hear
1:33.9	things about him that you didn't yet know. This is a longer conversation than usual because
1:39.3	we cover so many things and we were having a lot of depth in the back and forth. You'll hear from him
1:46.7	more personally. We also spoke about the intersection between mental health and politics.
1:52.2	He gave his views on the gender debate today, which I know you're going to love to hear.
1:58.6	And then he goes deeply into his new model, the patterns of
2:02.2	developmental pathways, the PDP, which is groundbreaking. He's been working on it for over a decade,
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