What's up, 1122 family? Welcome back to Relate, where we're having a conversation about our love lives.

Here at the Church of 1122, we are a movement for all people to discover and deepen a

relationship with Jesus Christ. And as we're studying Song of Solomon as a church, we're also

going to get the opportunity to dig deeper each week into the scripture through this conversation.

It's super exciting. My name's Ali. And if you're joining us for the first time, we're so glad

you're here. If you're back for round two, we're glad we didn't scare you off last week,

and we're glad you came back for more. Last week, Pastor Jobi and his wife Gretchen talked about

what it meant to be a godly man. And you all have been married how many years? 20 years. 20 years. We met in the gym and he was there again. I didn't remember him. And he was

like, hey, got you? Remember me? And I was like, love that. What's your name again? Yes.

Yeah. My mom always said, it's better to be single and want to be married than to be married and want to be single.

And so for me, that, write that down.

Right.

That's a great quote.

Yeah.

Fundamentally, it comes down to this.

It should be serious about your relationship with Jesus.

I mean, that's the first thing in what I just preached.

And simultaneous to that, I was growing up and just taking the responsibility of manhood,

you know.

It was the tank top.

He had muscles.

A tank top.

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