BONUS: Praying refinement over our kids
Pardon the Mess with Scarlet Hiltibidal - Christian Motherhood, Biblical Parenting, Raising Christian Kids
Scarlet Hiltibidal and Christian Parenting
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🗓️ 8 March 2021
⏱️ 11 minutes
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Summary
As we begin a new week of praying for our kids, it may seem that praying they are marked by “refinement” is a bit odd; however, we’re asking the Lord to sift out any impurities that keep them from God’s best in their lives.
Refinement is the process of using heat to remove impurities from metal. Only after the gold is refined do the most valuable qualities remain because the impurities and lesser qualities have been eliminated.
God is in the constant process of refining all of us. Even though we’re created in his image, we are free-willed human beings riddled with impurities that don’t line up with who we were created to be. This refinement is best accomplished through trials in our lives, which may be uncomfortable in the moment but are important nonetheless.
As we’re praying for our kids to be marked by refinement, let’s not ask God to remove our kids’ obstacles but rather to remove their impurities. Let’s pray that when the heat intensifies, our kids learn to trust that the One who allows the fire will also bring them through it.
Looking forward to praying God’s refinement over our kids this week.
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| 0:00.0 | Christian Parenting. |
| 0:03.5 | Christian Parenting. |
| 0:03.5 | Hey guys, Cynthia, welcome to pardon the mess. |
| 0:17.0 | I'm glad you're with us today. |
| 0:18.3 | We are praying that our kids are marked by refinement this |
| 0:21.4 | week. And that may seem like a strange thing to pray of your kids that they are marked by refinement. |
| 0:26.5 | But let's dig in a little bit here and see what scripture says about it. We start with our verse, |
| 0:31.6 | 1 Peter 1, 6 through 7. It says, in all this you greatly rejoice. Though now for a little while you may have had to suffer |
| 0:39.2 | grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that the proven genuineness of your faith |
| 0:44.1 | of greater worth than gold which perishes, even though refined by fire, may result in praise, |
| 0:50.1 | glory, and honor when Christ Jesus is revealed. And so the process of refinement talks about removing |
| 0:56.5 | impurities. And we are going to talk specifically about refinement looks like. But this reminds me when |
| 1:02.1 | we talk about removing impurities, it reminds me of something we always do in Colorado, when my family |
| 1:06.8 | goes in the summer. And I'm going to first tell you a random Colorado story that has nothing |
| 1:11.8 | to do with anything, but let's have a little laugh on a Monday morning and then we'll talk about |
| 1:15.1 | the rest of this. But my family, a couple of summers ago when we were in Colorado, we were in |
| 1:19.7 | Breckenridge. And if you've been to Breckenridge, Colorado, it's a cute little small mountain town. |
| 1:23.9 | And it has this little roundabout on one side of the town. And, you know, it's a |
| 1:28.1 | sleepy little town, but that roundabout gets a little bit of traffic. And so we had gone to the grocery |
| 1:32.6 | store. We just got into Colorado and we, you know, had our car. We drove this time. Our car was |
| 1:37.8 | packed with all of our stuff. And then we'd stopped and got some groceries. And my husband got a work call that was kind of important. So he was on the phone |
| 1:45.6 | and we had crammed all our groceries in and as we're driving out of the grocery store parking lot, |
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