Hello, beautiful Brave Hearts. How are you doing? So I wanted to create a fun little bonus

podcast series this week where Brave Hearts who are currently in the Get Over X program,

create little inspirational messages for all of you. So little love notes, love letters from a

brave heart to a brave heart in hopes to inspire you

this week during Valentine's Day week. So I hope you enjoy them as much as I do. I am sending

you so much love and I will talk to you next time. Hi, my name is Megan and I've been married for

22 years and been with my husband for 27 years.

We have three beautiful children together.

My husband decided he wanted a divorce and moved out of our family home several months ago.

Coming to terms with his decision has been the greatest challenge of my life.

I have never felt such sadness and devastation to the point that I didn't believe I could get through it. We had a life together and in my eyes it was perfect.

I felt a range of emotions and couldn't change what was now the inevitable.

I desperately tried to hold on to what we had and convinced him to stay.

I was committed to our marriage and family and would have done anything to hold us all

together forever. I'm halfway through the Get Over Your X program at this time, and I want to share with

you what I'm learning through a letter that I wrote to my past self. Dear Megan, this is sad. This is devastating. This isn't something that you wanted. You didn't expect to be married for 22 years and be going through this. This isn't what you had pictured. Let that version of yourself mourn. This is part of the human experience. But remember, just because

life isn't going as you planned it doesn't mean it isn't going as planned. Keep going. You are only

going up from here. This is happening for you, not to you. Healing isn't perfect and it isn't painless. You need to feel all your

feelings and sit with them. Get comfortable. It's okay to be sad. You are still making progress.

You can't see the forest through the trees right now, but you will make it out on the other side.

Do the hard work now.

Do it for yourself. I know you just want someone to tell you it will all be okay. And I want you to know that it will. You are going to find your strength to get through this. You're doing all the right

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