But now, you know, now today I, my life is full, my heart is full, and I feel like I can focus on other people's business.

So that's what we're going to do. I got a question from a guy, I don't know if he wants me to use his name or not, so I'll just call him

cucked in Cleveland. I think he'd appreciate that or not I don't know but let's but let's take a look

shall we all right so he's DM me and he said,

hi, I'd like to submit a question for the grab bag slash B-day pod.

My family hates my girlfriend and it bumps me out.

They think she's mean to me.

Any thoughts are appreciated. I you know being the

investigative journalist I am I wrote back and I said why do they think she's

mean to you is? And he said, okay,

she's definitely snapped at me over little stuff in front of them before.

I'm like, well, that's not great.

Yeah, that's not great.

Eh. And she that's not great.

And she was always like uncomfortable around my family,

so all my attention went to trying to make sure she had an okay time.

This, like why, I feel like I need more information, why was she on was she just nervous is your family assholes

Is she is it like a mutual thing where your girlfriend nor your family like or your family don't like each other you know what I mean

where they each don't like each other that's what it seems like kind of I'm not sure so far

so he goes on this all led to me growing distant from my family till I recently got up and

left and moved back with my family okay the plot thickens now I've explained all

this to my girlfriend and she sort of understands but now I'm trying to mend the fences and

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