Bonus: Finding the Treatment That Works for You with David Poses
The Addicted Mind Podcast
Duane Osterlind, LMFT
4.7 • 655 Ratings
🗓️ 3 March 2022
⏱️ 52 minutes
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Summary
The stigma of addiction is so bad that people who are struggling with it choose to hide it. However, addiction is not the real problem, but rather the symptom of all these underlying hurts, pains, and suffering.
Today’s episode is a replay of an interview with David Poses, who recently passed away, in honor of his life and legacy. A writer, speaker, and activist, David was a tireless advocate for all who struggled with mental health or addiction issues. David is the author of The Weight of Air: A Story About the Lies of Addiction and the Truth of Recovery.
David struggled with addiction, which he chose to hide for a long time. After trying to find a treatment that worked for him, he soon discovered buprenorphine, an opioid used to treat opioid-use disorders, which also saved his life from heroin. David also realized that being sober only means abstaining from whatever it is you’re addicted to, while recovery happens only when you’ve healed the wounds that led you to addiction in the first place.
That being said, there are different ways to treat addiction, and so, ultimately, you have to find one that works for you.
In this episode, you will hear:
- Resorting to heroin due to depression but it was also heroin that caused his depression
- Why AA wasn’t the right solution for him
- Finding the treatment and recovery method that works for us
- How opioids affect the brain
- Two medications that have been proven to dramatically reduce your risk of death, relapse, and overdose
- How buprenorphine saved David’s life
- Achieving recovery through healing the wounds that led you to addiction
- The stigma of addiction
Key Quotes:
[13:58] - "For every kind of vice or addiction, your neurotransmitters rewire, and they seek out the next hit. There’s the idea that sobriety gets easier with time and your brain heals in time and things go back to normal... But there have been a lot of studies about opioids that show that it doesn't necessarily go back."
[21:12] - "There are two medications that are proven to dramatically reduce your risk of death, relapse, and overdose: methadone and buprenorphine. All other forms of treatment or medications do not, and many others actually do the exact opposite."
[21:31] - “Any kind of abstinence-based treatment, whether it's forced or voluntary, increases your risk of overdose because you come out of it, you have no tolerance, and that's when people die.”
[23:10] - "Addiction has been so siloed off away from medicine for so long. Even with doctors, I tell the doctor the history and they assume I'm in there looking for drugs."
[35:03] - "If sobriety is I'm not taking drugs anymore or abstinence. Recovery is healing the wounds that led you to drugs in the first place."
[39:09] - "The stigma of addiction is so bad that I was seriously contemplating suicide."
[41:02] - "Addiction is not the problem. Addiction is definitely a problem but drugs are a form of self-medication."
[47:12] - "With any physical or psychological thing, we identify the source of pain, and we treat it so you can heal. With addiction, we explicitly tell you to ignore the source of pain because it's an excuse."
If you really enjoyed this episode, we’ve created a PDF that has all of the key information for you from the episode. Just go to the episode page at www.theaddictedmind.com to download it.
Supporting Resources:
GoFundMe campaign to support David Poses’ family
https://www.gofundme.com/f/we-love-you-david-posesand-love-your-family
The Weight of Air: A Story About the Lies of Addiction and the Truth of Recovery
https://davidposes.com/the-weight-of-air
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, everyone. I wanted to replay this episode of David Possus, the weight of air. |
| 0:13.5 | Unfortunately, David passed away this week. And to honor his life and his legacy, I thought it would be a good idea to replay his interview. |
| 0:26.2 | He was a tireless advocate for all who struggled with mental health or addiction issues. |
| 0:34.3 | And that was much of his life's work. My heart goes out to all of his family and friends. |
| 0:43.1 | David, thank you so much for your work. And if you would like to support his family at this time, |
| 0:50.3 | there is a GoFundMe campaign. Go to GoFundMe and type in David Posis. |
| 0:55.0 | I'll also put a link on the addictedmind.com as well. |
| 1:00.0 | Let's go ahead and play his episode. |
| 1:07.0 | Hello everyone, welcome to the Addicted Mind podcast. My guest today is David Poses, and he is going to talk about his book, The Weight of Air. And he's going to talk about his own recovery story. David, why don't you just start by introducing yourself? |
| 1:26.7 | Hi. I'm David Boses. |
| 1:28.6 | I guess I'm a writer. |
| 1:30.3 | I do speaking gigs, activism whenever possible, just trying to spread truth and cut through the noise. |
| 1:36.8 | Awesome. |
| 1:37.5 | Great. |
| 1:38.2 | So let's just jump in. |
| 1:39.8 | Let's start talking about your story of addiction and how it manifested. One of the things I also |
| 1:48.2 | want to talk about because I know your story talks about depression and mental health as well |
| 1:53.5 | as addiction. So I want to get there too, but I just want to kind of hear it from the beginning. |
| 1:58.0 | Okay, sure. I guess I was, I mean, long before depression entered my vocabulary, |
| 2:04.1 | I was depressed. I was a sad kid. My mom used to ask, you know, why are you so sad all the time? |
| 2:09.8 | You know, I knew that I didn't want to be sad, but I didn't know how to not be sad. So in the early |
| 2:16.1 | childhood drug prevention programs, we had a, you know, I grew up in the 80s, so it was the DARE program. |
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