Hey, babe, it is Lala Kent.

Welcome to the bonus episode.

Welcome, Teter.

I'm back.

I'm back.

I literally, I almost wish you would have been here during the Sabrina Zohar episode.

So I had Sabrina Zohar on the podcast for Wednesday's

episode, regular old episode. She was amazing. Did she put your guard down? Yes, actually. What was

wild was I've had conversations with dating experts and I don't have conversations with them to go out and try to

meet somebody, but it's very much about the female and how she attracts a man. Right.

And to me, it always feels very, it feels antiquated and it feels like a game. And when I said

this to Sabrina, she literally said,

if you play the game, you're going to attract a player. And I was like, what the fuck? My mind is

boom. It's so true. Like all of these rules, like don't text back unless it's been this

amount of time. Don't break eye contact for five seconds from across the bar because that's how they know your interest.

Like all of these things where I'm like, oh my God, this is so much to remember.

And you almost feel overwhelmed and defeated if you do all of these steps.

And then it doesn't work out because sometimes it just doesn't work out because it just don't work out.

Yeah.

She not only talked about dating tips and advice, but more so than anything, it was about, like,

who are you?

When you go into dating and you feel a certain way, what does that bring you back to?

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