BONUS: Breaking up with Bad Dating Habits - Julie interviews Yue

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 25 January 2023

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

From being the "cool girl" to avoiding difficult conversations to blowing up when trying to DTR, we're unpacking more bad dating habits that we both had – that you probably do too. But this week, Julie is interviewing Yue about her dating history and how these behaviors got in her way – even today. We're discussing how dating games ended up being counterproductive, why bad dating behavior is often a self-protection mechanism, and how to continue to grow at any stage of a relationship. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard This episode is sponsored by: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE Apostrophe: Get your first visit for only $5 at apostraphe.com/dateable using the code DATEABLE. Nux Activeware: Get 20% off your purchase at nuxactive.com and use the code DATEABLE20 at checkout. Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts,
0:14.3	date fails to diaper fetishes,
0:16.0	and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.3	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You'll also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy dateable world.
0:31.1	Hi friends, welcome to the
0:33.7	data will podcast this is another episode another week and another
0:37.9	interview between the two of us you get just the two of us today and that's okay
0:42.4	because we have so much to talk about.
0:44.1	Julie is going to be interviewing me. Yes the tables have turned. You probably were
0:50.4	in for a killer one last week. We did not realize how long that ran as we were
0:54.8	running, which was the irony of the whole thing. And then afterward I'm like, oh my God, how do we
1:00.0	talk for 88 minutes? I forgot we were even recording. I was just like we're having
1:04.4	a catch-up sesh. Because it was our first catch-up sesh since the new year, so we did have
1:09.7	a lot to talk about and you all got to hear the whole thing.
1:12.8	We'll see what happens today.
1:14.6	You know, we're gonna shoot for a little less time.
1:16.4	We'll be a little more conscious,
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