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Well, we said we were going to continue this very important discussion on good buys. Now we've talked a lot about good

boundaries and so if you've missed any part of that conversation I want to remind you that good boundaries are really

what should be applied and kept consistently first but when we hit this point where either the relationship becomes unsustainable because it's

gotten so unhealthy or possibly even unsafe, or we have to just accept a goodbye because the other person has literally walked away from us.

Whatever the case may be, we need to know what to do.

And I've said this before, but I've been a Christian for a really long time and I've been in

countless Bible studies and lots of sermons and yet I felt like this was so important for us to tackle because I've never before studying this for the writing of this book and the living of this message.

I've never been taught about how to say goodbye.

When I researched that word goodbye,

I actually found that its origin was God be with ye.

And then it was shortened to E and then B Y W E and then it was eventually shortened to goodbye.

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