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Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Bob’s therapy, attractive clients, and suicidal thoughts

Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Kirk Honda

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.51.3K Ratings

🗓️ 6 March 2024

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Summary

Bob and Kirk answer questions from patrons and YouTube members.

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00:00 How can I handle feeling left out at work?

06:15 How can I express my attachment to my therapist?

09:53 How does Bob feel during therapy?

11:37 Is it okay that I feel the best when I'm alone?

14:08 OPP

16:30 Am I ready for inner child work?

21:00 Is it okay for my therapist to provide reassurance?

32:31 OPP 2

34:33 How can I study for my licensing exam?

43:43 How can I help outpatient clients?

52:22 Chronic suicidal ideation & recovery from abuse


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March 6, 2024

The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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0:00.0

So Bob let's stop talking about the gory details of colonoscopies, which is, you know, par for the course for our age and let's answer some emails instead what do you say?

0:13.6

Yeah, sure.

0:14.7

Middle-tier patron and YouTube member, Kimmy from Utah, she says,

0:20.1

I just started working at my first agency

0:22.1

and I'm feeling left out as first agency and I'm feeling left out.

0:24.0

As a therapist, I'm feeling left out.

0:26.0

There are less than 10 employees total between two locations.

0:29.2

I am the youngest by more than a decade to everybody.

0:32.4

There are also two main groups or

0:35.0

clicks I think is what she's referred to. There is a group of divorced or

0:40.0

separated women with older children and another group of women who are remarried to women.

0:46.0

I have been married happily for nearly a decade and my oldest child is nearly 10.

0:51.0

It's hard to come into a new agency and try to connect. How do you deal with feeling

0:56.8

left out and isolated as an adult? Bob, what do you think?

1:01.2

Well, you could focus on what you have in common as opposed to what your differences are.

1:06.3

You all are therapists I presume and maybe someone there has interest clinical interests that are similar to your own or

1:15.0

knows something that you want to learn about in which case you got that to talk about but

1:19.9

you know you don't have commonality around the other things that's okay you can relate to all kinds of people but you know in the areas where you overlap so my guess is that yeah or at least that's what I would do.

1:33.0

Yeah.

1:34.0

If these people are shutting you out, then it's going to be harder, obviously.

1:40.0

But you're not saying that.

1:42.0

Yeah, it's weird.

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